The Virgin Suicides

  • Director: Sofia Coppola
  • Year: 1999

Overview

The five Lisbon sisters live in a strict suburban house where their parents keep a tight grip on their lives. After the youngest sister ends her life, the parents' control becomes even tighter. The neighborhood boys watch the sisters from afar, trying to decode their mysterious existence. The girls aren't allowed to go out or have friends, which cuts them off from the world. They use records and notes to communicate with the boys across the street. The isolation becomes too much to handle, and they plan a final, dark escape from their domestic prison because they cannot live this way.

Takeaways

The Lisbon parents try to protect their daughters by locking them away from the world, but their strict rules and obsession with control only make things worse. By cutting the girls off from school, friends, and the outside world, the parents create a suffocating environment where the sisters can't grow or find happiness. The neighborhood boys watch them from afar, but they don't really understand the girls' pain and can't do anything to save them. In the end, the girls' tragic decision shows that trying to completely control another person's life only leads to despair and destruction.